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Rebecca Winter interview
 
INTERVIEW: MISTRESS REBECCA WINTER

Rebecca Winter

1. Where are You originally from? (your backgorund)
I was born and brought up in the UK and am based in London

2. Is domination a full-time “job “ for you or do you have other activities?
As well as domination I direct films and write film music


3. How long an average slave can persist when you take him under your control?
I have got some slaves who have been visiting me since I started working as a dominatrix.


4. Is your slave base generally male or do you have female slaves?
Mostly men but I also get couples and women.

5. What separates a good slave from a bad one?
A good slave has a sound ego and is self confident. Those who lack this sometimes feel the need to restore ‘face’ after the session by saying or doing something to make the dom feel bad about herself, or by threatening her in some way.

6. What do you like most about being a dominatrix?
The variety

7. How did you find out you were interested in this sort of activity?
I already enjoyed BDSM as a lifestyle activity. However this was mostly limited to CP. Pro domming has expanded my horizons

8. Your first domination experience?
Someone who wanted CP as it happens

9. Why do people come to you for sexual shame and humiliation?
Because they find it sexually exciting, I recently had someone ring and ask for feminisation. When he arrived he said to me he wasn;’t too bothered whether he had it or not. I picked up from this that he was very turned on by it but it was so intense for him that he wasn’t sure he could do so.

I feminised him and was rewarded by seeing his cock go up and his head droop down. I knew that I had got the key to his inner self.

10. Your favorite stuff in domination?
I hesitate to say anything in particular, it is like saying your favourite food, you might like chocolate cake or avocado pears but would you want a none stop diet of avocado pear? Things are often more delicious when you don’t do them all the time. I enjoy sissification, but partly because not many men ask for it so it is an occasional treat.

I usually find if I’ve had, say, a good feminisation session, then what I fancy is a bit of CP, or a hypnosis session, or a forced bi one.

11. Do You like to work and/or play with other Dominants?
Yes I have joint sessions with other pro doms. I also bring observers into sessions (m ale and female) and trainee doms plus men for forced bi sessions and female subs. This is only when the client wants it of course. The most people I ever had in one session at one time was nine including me

12. How do You measure a subs/slaves limits?
Good communication and sensitivity which means good observation and watching their reactions closely. I also give them safewords. Some slaves are fearful that this would be them running the session, but in fact it is the opposite. A safeword frees the dom to do as she pleases. Slaves are also very proud and hate to safeword as they feel it is giving in to the dom (which is just what the dom wants of course) so it can be a battle of wills (and the dom always wins)

13. Would You say You are more physical, psychological, or theatrical during a session?
To be a good dominatrix you must use all three

14. What is Your favorite scenario?
I enjoy variety so the scenario I most enjoy is one that is different from the one I’ve just done.

15. What is the most humiliating thing You ever did to a slave?
Humiliation is a state of mind. A state of the slave’s mind. Those slaves who enjoy humiliation find it a turn on, but the important thing is to discover what the slave himself finds humiliating. What humiliates one person won’t necessarily work on another. Again good communication is vital. Everyone is different so you can’t just assume there is some extreme thing you do to someone which he and everyone else would regard as the ultimate in humiliation,

16. Do you enjoy your work?
Yes

17. What is Your favorite type of clothing?
Leather. I have a leather skirt, thigh boots, gloves, corset, bra, suspender belt and thong. I would like a new leather mini skirt and some leather trousers (in black of course)

18. Could share one or two of your other interests?
Directing films and writing film music. These should be on sale shortly.

19. What is the one thing in the world that really pisses You off?
Stupid, greedy, unscrupulous, lying, morally corrupt individuals

Some Closing Comments ?
Doing BDSM takes courage, but its important to do those things we crave (provided we do no harm to others). I suspect the one thing we will regret at the end of our lives is the things we didn’t try and not the things we did. So if you want to do BDSM take your courage in both hands and do it.

Bonus questions:

What are Your thoughts on Female Supremacy?
I make excellent films on this topic, film website will be coming soon, its called femdomfilms.eu up by 16th December 2007

Films subjects include humiliation, cuckold, forced bi, hypnosis, sissification, slut training, blackmail, chloroform, as well as the more usual themes such as feminisation, TV maid, dungeon scenes etc.

What are Your views on extreme disobedience?
I have just finished directing a film on this topic, its called Strict Enslavement and stars Strapon Jane. It will be available on femdomfilms.eu websitre just before Christmas (give yourself a nice present for Christmas).

What is a really kinky scene that You haven't done yet that You would like to do?
The next films are to be on office life, I aim to have men punished by having women sit on their faces. I don’t do this myself so am looking forward to directing it. I have other interesting plans for film topics, very hot themes which have never been done, but these are under wraps for now.

What would you say is the secret to your success as a dominatrix?
You need to get up in the morning, put your phone on and answer it.

Is there someone in Your life that You regard as Superior?
I suppose this is getting down to metaphysics, is there a God? If there is a God is this an independent being or is this God something within us all? If there is and he is within us all then I suppose saying one person is superior to another would be like saying my wrist is superior to my knee.

If someone very close to You decided to be a Pro Domme, what one thing would You like Her to know?
Follow good hygiene procedures

Do You have an example of a personal “session from hell”?
I don’t session with people who are very drunk or on drugs. I think if you follow that rule your sessions should be enjoyable.

Does S&M extend to your personal relationships?
I have friendly relationships with a lot of my clients, some have been coming to me for years so it isn’t purely a client/dom relationship anymore, even if it is still fee paying.

Some dominatrixes tend to downplay the sexuality of S&M. How about you?
I don’t do sex.

What differentiates a slave You enjoy seeing from one You simply are willing to see?
That they are considerate, have good personal hygiene and are willing to communicate

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