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1. Where
are You originally from? (your backgorund)
I was born and brought up
in the UK and am based in London
2. Is domination
a full-time “job “ for you or do you have other
activities?
As well as domination I
direct films and write film music
3. How long an average slave can persist when you
take him under your control?
I have got some slaves who
have been visiting me since I started working as
a dominatrix.
4. Is your slave base generally male or do you have
female slaves?
Mostly men but I also get couples and women.
5. What separates
a good slave from a bad one?
A good slave has a sound ego and is self
confident. Those who lack this sometimes feel the
need to restore ‘face’ after the session by saying
or doing something to make the dom feel bad about
herself, or by threatening her in some way.
6. What do you like
most about being a dominatrix?
The variety
7. How did you find
out you were interested in this sort of activity?
I already enjoyed BDSM as
a lifestyle activity. However this was mostly limited
to CP. Pro domming has expanded my horizons
8. Your first domination
experience?
Someone who wanted CP as
it happens
9. Why do people
come to you for sexual shame and humiliation?
Because they find it sexually
exciting, I recently had someone ring and ask for
feminisation. When he arrived he said to me he wasn;’t
too bothered whether he had it or not. I picked
up from this that he was very turned on by it but
it was so intense for him that he wasn’t sure he
could do so.
I feminised him and was rewarded by seeing
his cock go up and his head droop down. I knew that
I had got the key to his inner self.
10. Your favorite
stuff in domination?
I hesitate to say anything
in particular, it is like saying your favourite
food, you might like chocolate cake or avocado pears
but would you want a none stop diet of avocado pear?
Things are often more delicious when you don’t do
them all the time. I enjoy sissification, but partly
because not many men ask for it so it is an occasional
treat.
I usually find if I’ve had, say, a good
feminisation session, then what I fancy is a bit
of CP, or a hypnosis session, or a forced bi one.
11.
Do You like to work and/or play with other Dominants?
Yes I have joint sessions
with other pro doms. I also bring observers into
sessions (m
ale and female) and trainee doms plus
men for forced bi sessions and female subs. This
is only when the client wants it of course. The
most people I ever had in one session at one time
was nine including me
12. How do You measure
a subs/slaves limits?
Good communication and sensitivity
which means good observation and watching their
reactions closely. I also give them safewords. Some
slaves are fearful that this would be them running
the session, but in fact it is the opposite. A safeword
frees the dom to do as she pleases. Slaves are also
very proud and hate to safeword as they feel it
is giving in to the dom (which is just what the
dom wants of course) so it can be a battle of wills
(and the dom always wins)
13. Would You say
You are more physical, psychological, or theatrical
during a session?
To be a good dominatrix
you must use all three
14. What is Your
favorite scenario?
I enjoy variety so the scenario
I most enjoy is one that is different from the one
I’ve just done.
15. What is the most
humiliating thing You ever did to a slave?
Humiliation is a state of
mind. A state of the slave’s mind. Those slaves
who enjoy humiliation find it a turn on, but the
important thing is to discover what the slave himself
finds humiliating. What humiliates one person won’t
necessarily work on another. Again good communication
is vital. Everyone is different so you can’t just
assume there is some extreme thing you do to someone
which he and everyone else would regard as the ultimate
in humiliation,
16. Do you enjoy
your work?
Yes
17. What is Your
favorite type of clothing?
Leather. I have a leather
skirt, thigh boots, gloves, corset, bra, suspender
belt and thong. I would like a new leather mini
skirt and some leather trousers (in black of course)
18. Could share one
or two of your other interests?
Directing films and writing
film music. These should be on sale shortly.
19. What is the one
thing in the world that really pisses You off?
Stupid, greedy, unscrupulous,
lying, morally corrupt individuals
Some Closing Comments
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Doing BDSM takes courage,
but its important to do those things we crave (provided
we do no harm to others). I suspect the one thing
we will regret at the end of our lives is the things
we didn’t try and not the things we did. So if you
want to do BDSM take your courage in both hands
and do it.
Bonus
questions:
What
are Your thoughts on Female Supremacy?
I make excellent films on
this topic, film website will be coming soon, its
called femdomfilms.eu up by 16th December 2007
Films subjects include humiliation, cuckold,
forced bi, hypnosis, sissification, slut training,
blackmail, chloroform, as well as the more usual
themes such as feminisation, TV maid, dungeon scenes
etc.
What are Your views
on extreme disobedience?
I have just finished directing
a film on this topic, its called Strict Enslavement
and stars Strapon Jane. It will be available on
femdomfilms.eu websitre just before Christmas (give
yourself a nice present for Christmas).
What is a really
kinky scene that You haven't done yet that You would
like to do?
The next films are to be
on office life, I aim to have men punished by having
women sit on their faces. I don’t do this myself
so am looking forward to directing it. I have other
interesting plans for film topics, very hot themes
which have never been done, but these are under
wraps for now.
What would you say
is the secret to your success as a dominatrix?
You need to get up in the
morning, put your phone on and answer it.
Is there someone
in Your life that You regard as Superior?
I suppose this is getting
down to metaphysics, is there a God? If there is
a God is this an independent being or is this God
something within us all? If there is and he is within
us all then I suppose saying one person is superior
to another would be like saying my wrist is superior
to my knee.
If someone very close
to You decided to be a Pro Domme, what one thing
would You like Her to know?
Follow good hygiene procedures
Do You have an example
of a personal “session from hell”?
I don’t session with people
who are very drunk or on drugs. I think if you follow
that rule your sessions should be enjoyable.
Does S&M extend
to your personal relationships?
I have friendly relationships
with a lot of my clients, some have been coming
to me for years so it isn’t purely a client/dom
relationship anymore, even if it is still fee paying.
Some dominatrixes
tend to downplay the sexuality of S&M. How about
you?
I don’t do sex.
What differentiates
a slave You enjoy seeing from one You simply are
willing to see?
That they are considerate,
have good personal hygiene and are willing to communicate
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