Femdom dominatrix is a widely used term that is describing a dominant woman that enjoys torturing or humiliating slaves. It happened many times until now that people ask me more about the femdom dominatrix. They are wondering what is it, what she is doing, and many more related questions.
So I’ve decided to dedicate this page to people just starting to discover the beauties of female domination and make a guide that will help them completely understand the dominatrix fetish, its origins, and the rules but will also help the, find real-life Dommes, and further explore this specific lifestyle.
Femdom Dominatrix – the definition
Giving a short explanation of such a complex term is always a tricky job to do. But we need an answer adjusted to people without experience in female supremacy, so here it is:
A Dominatrix is a female person having an authoritative position within BDSM activity. Her actions are not limited only to physical forms of torture. A successful Dominatrix will use different forms and femdom methods to humiliate the submissive side in their relationship. These are verbal humiliation, brainfucking, jerk-off instructions, and other similar exercises that will result in slave embarrassment.
The sex of BDSM slave is not affecting the title of a Dominatrix. A genuine dominant woman won’t make a difference between her slaves based on their gender. Of course, the course of action depends on it because of the natural genital differences between men and women.
In modern femdom, the term Dominatrix is mostly used when describing a professional Domme who is charging for her services. At the same time, there are many amateur femdom Ladies doing it for fun and personal pleasure only, without monetary compensation. In that case, a femdom mistress is a more commonly used term. Still, there both can be used when describing a dominant woman.
Same as the gender of slaves, Dominatrix’s sex can also be different. In most cases, a Dominatrix is a woman (straight or more often, bisexual) sometimes a dominant shemale or a tranny can be considered a Dominatrix. In reality, there is a small number of tranny Dommes and this type of femdom is considered a separate niche dedicated to a special fan base. You can watch a genuine face-sitting shemale femdom video here, to get a better idea and see are you into this kind of fetish kink.
The origin of a Dominatrix word
Coming from the Latin language and the word “dominator” which means a ruler, the first records are dating back in the 16th century. But at that time, the term didn’t have a sexual connotation. Interestingly, Dominatrix as a person involved in sadomasochistic relationships started to be used somewhere in 1960. It didn’t take long before this resonant word was accepted and started to be used worldwide, becoming a universal term used in hundreds of different languages around the globe.
Today, there is almost no person who does not know what is a dominatrix, at least to recognize the basic meaning and have a proper idea of what is it.
History of a Dominatrix fetish
It is a common belief that femdom is something relatively new while many people think that wider popularization of femdom started during the times of the sexual revolution. If you think so, you are about to be amazed by the next paragraph.
Goddess Inanna or Goddess Ishtar (Goddess of sex, war, justice, and political power) is an ancient Mesopotamian deity. Translated written records (cuneiform) are mentioning practices including men into submission. Some of the practices stated in those documents are cross-dressing, and various painful torture methods resulting in an altered state of mind. Besides this, there are many more well-documented historical records you can research on your own.
Two main types of Dominatrix
Fetish femdom is a complicated niche, especially for newbies. It is a common occurrence that people think there are dozens of different dominatrix types. They are wrong and their belief is based on what a particular Domina is usually doing. So if a woman is an expert in male slave face sitting femdom humiliation, she is not a “facesitting dominatrix” just because of that. The best femdom Mistresses love to combine femdom fetishes and techniques. The only real division in the world of female mastery is the one between amateur and professional Dominatrixes.
It is important to understand that if a sexy dominatrix is an amateur, it doesn’t mean She is bad at what is She doing. It only means that an amateur dominatrix is not taking money for her activities. Usually, their appearance won’t reveal a fetish kinky nature and most of those ladies are ordinary women you are meeting every day. But once behind closed doors and inside their realm, the solo male slave should expect not only rough sex but also all other types of femdom BDSM behavior that can be performed without a dungeon and special BDSM torture tools. In essence, more than enough to make every man humble and obedient.
Here are a few good examples (of many available on this site) showing domestic slave femdom embarrassment and control: strapon amateur femdom pegging, smothering housewife, brutal cock stomping torture, face slapping humiliation, amateur femdom whipping, and cock and balls torture at home.
How a woman becomes a Dominatrix?
There is only one important thing deciding will a woman be a successful femdom Domina. Everything else is just finesse. I am talking about natural instinct for a femdom fetish. This is something that can’t be faked. True, there are many women trying to do it. Actually, many top rated pornstars tried to act as femdoms. But without having it for real, there is no way to trick a real femdom fan.
Simply speaking, as a spectator or from the slave POV perspective, you will see real enjoyment in Mistress’s eyes while she is abusing or torturing a sub. Even if a hot dominatrix is silent, She is not laughing or telling anything, you will still be able to see the satisfaction in her cold and strict eyes. It is hard to describe it by words but it is more than easy to notice it in real life.
Also, do not be confused with the length of slave training. Dominatrix extreme femdom approach is usually much shorter compared to long femdom teasing or foot worship sessions. The reason is that with a more brutal and painful femdom approach, the male body simply can’t withstand sessions lasting for a long time. So, remember, having a short BDSM dominatrix experience ( a good example is a merciless femdom ballbusting) doesn’t mean Goddess is not enjoying what she is doing. It is just a different, more intensive approach to how a dominatrix humiliates a slave.
Synonyms
If you are new to dominatrix porn and other dominatrix xxx related stuff, you could be confused with a few different terms often used to describe the same thing. Notice that some of the authors could use wrong or at least, not completely precise terms in their articles.
Still, you are probably on the good path as long as some of the next words are mentioned. They are Mistress, Domina, Goddess, Straponatrix, Humiliatrix, Domme, dominant wife, Cuckoldrix, pegging Mistress, female owner, dominant woman, or a female master. Some of those words are synonyms for a Dominatrix while other ones are firmly related to the subject of a Dominatrix fetish.
What are the best dominatrix mistress websites?
Not only that things changed over time so some websites will grow while other ones will lose value, but different people are having different tastes. So if you are a fan of femdom fingering (for example), that doesn’t mean you will enjoy watching a high-quality femdom milking humiliation, right? Or you are exclusively into lesbian dominatrix stuff and not interested in cuckold humiliation. Exactly because of this reason,
I’ve created a list of the best Dominatrix websites currently online. Notice that this detailed websites listing is different from the top 10 rated femdom websites and I will suggest checking them both. If you want to investigate the concept of girly supremacy further, then check some niche-specific pages as best ballbusting sites, most popular 15 cuckold sites, top facesitting sites, foot domination, and foot fetish sites or if you are into anal femdom sex, don’t forget visiting favorite pegging sites and best strapon sites listing.
The most popular femdom Dominatrix torture methods
After almost two decades, the Femdom Destiny website has a clear picture and info about many things other people are not even aware of. One of those things is kind of statistics you are about to see. It is based on the 10 years period which means that numbers are pretty stable. Below is the list of methods and fetishes featured in porn videos and all other types of femdom dominatrix videos.
#1 – Femdom facesitting: On the top of the list of most used dominating male methods is a simple and effective technique known as facesitting. Some people are using the term “smothering”. I would say that no matter if are you a submissive type of person or not, obsession with a female ass is an internal part of every straight man. Some women love to use that advantage when their ass will become a tool of domination, or better to say, ass domination. This site is full of great examples, and here is the one for you. Check out Asian femdom facesitting photos to get a taste of genuinely forced facesitting.
#2 – Foot domination: Entry level of femdom, the easiest thing to do, and usually the first thing submissive people experience in their life as a slave. Footfetish is the starting point but when it comes to femdom, the next level is to worship female feet. The foot fetish scene is probably the biggest and most developed so it is easy to find a foot Dominatrix who will put a submissive slave where he should be, under her feet. My suggestion is to start with a femdom footjob Mistress gallery here.
#3 – Pegging: Strapon pegging experience can be not only painful but also very educational. There is no man out there who never asked how it feel to be penetrated. For some, curiosity is so strong that they will hand over ass to a Mistress and be strapon fucked. The other ones are into anal sex slave submission only because of humiliation. The most extreme masochists enjoy feeling the anal pain coming as a result of a big strapon penetration.
#4 – Ballbusting: As a sub-niche of the below-mentioned femdom CBT, ballbusting is a swift, precise, quick, and extremely painful way to send a man down to his knees. Some Dommes are real experts in balls kicking. This means they know how much strength to use, is slave faking the pain, and how many times they can repeat harsh ballbusting kicks. Usually, every genital busting dominatrix session is short because of the severe pain most of people can’t handle for a long time. Check out this mean ballbusting Mistress devastating slave’s sacks.
#5 – Spanking: An omnipresent fetish, often seen in mainstream movies as a representation of sexual domination, is very popular among Mistresses around the globe. Below is an older music video having femdom spanking as the main motive. I know some women who consider it a kind of anthem and favorite music when beating the asses of male and female slaves.
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#6 – Sissification: it is a tiny niche and a different (soft) approach to the humiliation of men. There are not many good sissy trainers so they are in demand. Converting a slave into a good and obedient sissy is a process and it usually takes multiple sessions of sissy training to get desired results. Violence and torture are not required but can be used along the way, it depends on a femdom Dominatrix decision and opinion. As an example, check out one of the femdom videos featuring two Dominatrices using big black strapons to train their BDSM sissy.
#7 – Cock and ball torture: Any femdom Dominatrix loving to ruin men this way has a variety of choices in this field. More equipped and dedicated pro dommes have specially designed tools for this purpose like femdom humbler. In essence, the imagination is the only limit if a Domme is really into it. It is impossible to count all possible types of femdom CBT. It can be conducted inside the dungeon but also in the comfort of home. For example, by using hot wax on a slave’s dick.
#8 – Trampling: Like some type of footdom descendant, trampling torture is a quick method of making a slave suffer. The best thing in the process is that besides an available slave, femdom Dominatrix can perform it anywhere. This means on the street, at home, in the park, etc. There are always some variations. I am talking about group femdom trampling, high heels slave trampling, most painful face trampling, or simple barefoot trample domination. As with everything else, it is up to a Goddess to decide how he will perform it.
#9 – Femdom bondage: Similar to the above, this method is used in various forms in shapes. The difference is that a femdom Mistress should have a femdom dungeon at her disposal. Sure, it is possible to tie a slave and leave him to suffer in drops at home, but the best way to perform proper BDSM femdom activities is to use a dungeon. It is a very special place where no one will hear slave streaming and begging plus a Domme can combine different torture tools.
#10 – Cuckolding: This is a very specific way of mostly mental torture. Cuckoldrix or a cuckold Dominatrix will force her slave (usually a husband) to watch her enjoying sexual intercourse with another man. Slaves won’t have physical contact with a Mistress, but they will mentally suffer. Being in such an experience when someone is fucking your wife will alternate the way how you see the world around.
In some cases, a femdom cuckold will have to eat cum of another guy or will even be forced to suck another guy’s dick. It is an intensive and incredibly humiliating experience where some slaves will literally get a nervous breakdown right at the sight. How serious this can be, you will see in this forced bi sex blowjob article.
Is female domination really for you?
The answer to this question is individual. Many men have a fantasy about a dominatrix in latex or a blonde domina with huge tits making them worship her ass and pussy but in reality, only a small percent of men really tried femdom in real life. The purpose of this site is to promote these values, encourage men to explore their submissive side, and most of all, help them understand is female domination porn is really for them.
In the end, the only way to see if are you really enjoying the femdom humiliation mistress experience is to try it and see by yourself. Be warned, an experienced sexy dominatrix babe can easily make you addicted to pain and suffering even after only one session with her.
Is there a way to practice femdom Dominatrix servitude?
As with everything in our lives, practice, and experience are crucial. This is especially important when trying to get attention from your Mistress. You already know there are always tons of pathetic guys trying to satisfy Mistress and doing whatever she says.
But that’s not enough. Just being obedient is maybe ok for some young dominatrix not expecting much from her slave. More experienced Dommes are much more demanding. This is a bad position because once A mistress denies you as a slave, She probably won’t give you another chance, ever! So what to do? How to be a good slave without having a chance to practice the most important slave skills?
Luckily, this is where modern technology will help you. I am talking about femdom cams, a unique phenomenon now available for slaves around the globe. By clicking on the photo below, you will be redirected to the page telling more about serving some of the dominatrix live models online looking for submissive men.
In essence, this is the best possible way to experience bitches kink from an amateur or even a classy professional. Verbal humiliation, strapon femdom, cum eating instructions, or something else, you will easily find your favorite femdom fetish. Live cam femdom hosts are equipped with everything from fuck toys, anal BDSM probes, paddles, latex gloves leather whips, and much more.
Almost all types of female supremacy can be practiced on live webcams except the few ones who must have direct physical contact between Mistress and a slave. For example dominatrix, femdom fetish handjob, forced pussy eating, big tits domination, etc.
The best part is that you can easily find the type of Dominant woman in just a few clicks. Is that a Japanese kinky busty dominatrix, hot brunette straponatrix, petite Asian BDSM goddess, chubby dominatrix, or maybe a strict and cruel Russian Dominatrix? They are all there, maybe even at the moment while you are reading this.
I don’t want to give an impression that I am biased and cheering for mistress-slave relationships on webcam, but this is probably the best way to improve your slave skills before going in front of a real femdom Dominatrix.
The conclusion
Being a slave to any kind of dominant woman (stepmom, girlfriend, wife, or professional sex dominatrix) is a demanding task and episode in life that can easily become a lifestyle. Hopefully, this article helped you to understand all important things related to the modern fetish scene and it will be a starting point for further exploration of the femdom dominatrix niche.
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